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...to the blog of the Three Sexketeers. We are a group of three delicious single women intent on whetting our, and your, appetite for pleasure. We are here to discuss our opinions on and celebrate the mélange of sexual thrills available in the world and to share our own personal sexcapades. No rules. No judgment. Just the naked truth.


We shall be known here by our terribly fun and equally tacky pseudonyms: Disco, Glitterbella and XTC. Each week we shall pick a topic - everything from abstinence to hardcore BDSM - and discuss our varying opinions on our chosen days: XTC Wednesdays, Glitterbella Fridays, and Disco Sundays. Sprinkled throughout our carnal discourse will be stories of our own true-to-life sex adventures, posted once we've recovered our bearings - and clothes.


Before we invite you into our beds and heads, first we'd like you to get to know us a little bit...


Disco is a 20 year old bisexual woman, recently single from a long-term relationship, moving to the big city. She is intent on making the next year of her life as satisfying as possible, in every way. A victim of molestation in her early teens, Disco has only recently reclaimed the power of her sexuality and intends to celebrate it, not fear it, from now on. She is an incurable romantic but also much kinkier than she generally likes to admit. She loves music, film, art, pop culture, fashion and massaging showerheads.


Glitterbella is a 21 year old sort of maybe possibly bisexual but definitely curious woman. Single after a long term relationship with her high school sweetheart, she has made some disastrous choices when it comes to the opposite sex (and the same!) but hopes to make some better ones soon. She also tends to fall in and out of "like" far, far to easily but is way to cynical for "love" anytime soon. She loves reading , writing, sexy outfits, and an open mind.


XTC is a 19 year old woman who has never had a long-term relationship and is still coming to terms with understanding her sexuality and desires. She is a university student who studies society and plans on discovering as much as the world as possible. XTC is very open-minded and willing to try almost anything once. She loves porn (probably more than some men), anything that is battery-operated and animals, but only in a very NON-sexual way.


This Week's Topic is Celibacy

Waiting by XTC

The vow of celibacy is one that has always intrigued me, far before I became sexually active. I believe that it all began while watching Entertainment Tonight with my mother. Jessica Simpson was doing an interview, discussing her upcoming marriage and her feelings about "saving herself" for her wedding night. I believe that she described it as "the perfect gift" a girl could give a man. Well, we all know how that ended.

Religious purposes aside, I believe that one's wedding night should be one of passion and romance and sheer pleasure. It is meant to be the climax of your love for one another. Although "gift-giving" may... show love...? I can't imagine it necessarily being the most enjoyable experience. At least, that's not how I remember it going down.

Shouldn't an individual be able to experience their options and learn what they want before committing to a lifelong flavour? I sure as hell know that I want to. Suuuuuure maybe the waiting causes you to develop a more intellectual or romantic connection, since physical intimacy is not in the picture, but isn't it also possible that you may unintentionally rush the development of your emotions and your relationship in order to get to that oh-so-desired point? We misunderstand our own emotions all of the time. We're confusing creatures us humans. But when you are in the act of sex - not much gets more real.

Outside of the serious relationship context, celibacy also appears to serve almost no purpose to me. From personal experience, I enjoy sex much more when I actually know the person. I think that the comfort level and anticipation of the act adds to one's arousal at that time. However, there is a difference between knowing your partner and making a vow of celibacy. There have been multiple situations where I consciously chose to not engage in sex with the man whom I was interested in, for various reasons, to.. say... "wait." It did not end very well. Too much anticipation leads to nervousness and broken expectations.

For all of you sensitive souls who are afraid of giving it up too quickly and getting your heart broken, I have to argue, wouldn't it hurt even more of you waited for so long only to have it broken immediately following anyways? Of course, this is a personal decision. All of our emotions run different and we have various requirements to fulfill our happiness.

Personally, I have not had sex in four months now. I can sincerely tell you that going without it sucks ass.